Thinking about things

Well i have been doing a lot of thinking lately, and i can honestly say after everything i have been through in the past 2 1/2 years to come out still in one piece and sane that i can do anything and accomplish anything,

after loosing a child and almost loosing my life after being married for only 23 weeks, to have a micro prem that we nearly lost several times and who spent 88 days in hospital, then to almost loose another child due to early labor, though spending 10 weeks straight in hospital with hardley ANY visits from any friends or family let alone my son, then to go though labor ALL on my own WITH OUT drugs and still come out on top with a LOVING husband, 2 gorgeous boys, and 1 little angel watching over us to make sure no harm comes to us i must be one of the most luckiest people on the planet,

As they say what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger, though for all my CLOSE friends out there and the ones who have been there when i really needed it a big thank you to you all, 

One of those people

have you ever had "One of those people" as a friend?
If your not sure what i mean, i mean people who always have to do one better than you, or have been what you have been through though worse.. i seem to knwo a few of them, they always seem to have had something or done something just that one better,
Like bloody hell i didn't know everything was a competition..
I cant seem to have a down day with out them having one worse
I cant seem to ask them for a ear with out them telling me how they are going through the same though way much worse than I,

Question for you all:

 Have you had someone like this in your life, and how did you rid your life of them,